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Simply..a treatment, perhaps a cure....

21/5/2021

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..for my PPSD.

To treat what I figured is my most worrying synptom  - the loss of joie de vivre - I have decided to revisit Gretchen Rubin's The Happiness Project.

I  know I have lots to be happy about. There are lots of little sparks of joy, but it's as if they rarely burst into flame anymore.

As ever my inner critic asks Isn't it selfish to think about your own happiness when so many people are suffering? Gretchen Rubin also asks this question and reminds me that studies show that happy people are more altruistic, more forgiving, generous, helpful, charitable, have better self control and are more tolerant of frustration and are more able to make other people happy.  I have often thought that the only guaranteed way to increase the happiness in the world is to be happy myslef, so on that basis I will embark on a  new Happinesss Project.

Will you join me? What is there to lose after all?


When I first used this book I did it over a year, took what was useful to me from it and it was a big (and rewarrding) exercise.


This time round it will be a mini project. I am listening to the book on Audible and finding it amusing and entertaining. I am jotting down ideas that I think will be useful to me. The first ones are about  energy and vitality...
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I think this angelica is having a Yay nonent!

PS Turns out I had a Yay moment myself today! The huge happiness boost of a hug from my younger daughter - the first in 15 months. Sending you virtual hugs and hoping you get real ones very soon.
9 Comments
Sheena
23/5/2021 12:03:00 am

Oh well done, Freda! I will certainly join you and have a look at Gretchen Rubin's book. Contentment seems to be my standard mode at the moment and I can remember periods of intense happiness but mostly from when I was a bit younger, which is a wee bit depressing, so definitely in need of a happiness boost.
Hugs are a very good way to start.

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Freda
23/5/2021 02:06:04 pm

A very good way to start. I hope you can get them. Delighted that you will join in and look forward to hearing how it goes!

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Gail
23/5/2021 12:57:43 am

I hugged my younger brother last week....first time we saw each other since Christmas 2019

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Freda
23/5/2021 02:06:31 pm

That is wonderful!!

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Liz
23/5/2021 02:16:05 am

Sounds a great idea. I think I’ll get it on Audible too. Often it’s quite a different experience from the book. I have the book and loved it but as you say - worth a revisit.

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Grrda
23/5/2021 02:07:50 pm

Listening is a very different experience. I hope you will let us know how you find it p Liz

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Liz
23/5/2021 08:25:39 am

Me again: I wonder if you’ve come across the work of Harvard academic Tal Ben Shahar. He writes and talks about PTG. We all know about PTSD but few have heard of post trauma growth. If you don’t know it’s even possible, it’s much less likely to happen to you...

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Freda
23/5/2021 02:08:47 pm

Thank you for this. A new name to me and I will enjoy finding out more.

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Madeleine Lawrence
27/5/2021 02:00:25 pm

I will definitely check out the happiness project. Here's a rather mundane suggestion - have your vitamin D levels checked. Low vitamin D can make one very depressed. Even lowish normal levels can leave one feeling really flat. I know you've just come out of winter (maybe you already take a supplement?)

My vitamin D was very low after the 5 months staying indoors because of bush fires. A month of supplementing saw me feeling like my old self again.

The other thing I use from time to time is nervine herbs. When you have been tense and stressed for a long time it takes an awful lot of energy. These herbs help you relax and this really does release energy - and that can lead to happiness again. Maybe your health food shop has a herbalist or naturopath on duty who can make suggestions.

Of course the emotional stuff needs to be taken care of too!

Madeleine.xx

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