Quite the philosopher, I know!
Barry is in hospital and we wait for test results, and I am trying not to indulge in 'if only' and 'what if' kind of thinking.
Byron Katie says Reality is kinder than our stories about it.
The reality is that he is in excellent hands, and with the help of a whole team of skilled and caring people has improved hugely since last Monday, I am visiting every day, family and friends are being wonderful, and no amount of thinking will change the past or the future. Nor will it curb the gales which are likely to cancel the ferries today!
Stating the obvious I know, but sometimes the obvious needs to be stated and said out loud I find.
Another cup of tea anyone?