There is some truth in the saying what you focus on is what you get. My decision to change my word, despite my reservatios, was a good one. See this post. February posts in 2023 were mostly about romance. This one lists romantic things and your suggestions were a wonderful addition. (To access the archive on your phone click on comments and scroll down,) When someone gives you a panettone on New Year's Day all your good intentions about returning to healthy eating get shunted back a few days.. Do you choose a word for your year? I find it not only fun but helpful. My favoutie word was 'lovingly' which, especially if I was annoyed or frustrated qucickly brought me to a better frame of mind. This year 'romantic' has been a fun word, influencing lots of small decisions. It is a lighthearted one, and lightness of heart is rather precious, don't you think? It has to be a poositive word (what use am I to anyone if I am depressed and anxious and pessimistic?) and it has to be meaningful in ordinary everyday situations. I am thinking of cherish and flourish. Cherish speaks of gratitude and appreciation, of love with an element of tenderness in it. (My husband made me feel cherished which was wonderful.) While cherish pertains to what already exists, flourish is perhaps more forward looking with it's suggestion of growth, and action. Lest you think I leave my house with all the lights blazing (recent Dark Nights post) the camera does lie and the lights were these modest Swedish Christmas ones which I have in each window and a string of lights in the hall whcih I put on as it gets dark. (So easy to make conscientious peope feel guilty they say. It's true!)
I have been scrolling throughlast yeat's blog posts and am positively bursting with gratitude! I'm not quite ready to leaave Romantic 2023 behind yet...more tomorrow... Thank you for all the kind wishes for 2024. ...comfort and joy and every happiness in the coming year. My heartfelt thanks to you for reading my blog.
I was very glad I did the shopping yesterday. Assuming you don't have to go to work that day, what is your favourite way to spend a snowy day? I stoked up the fire and had breakfast by candlelight, fed the birds, took a little bare foot walk around the garden, listened to The Snow Child on Audible. I had some soup and some Christmas chhocolates and looked at my Christmas book and thought about my word for 2024... I had a thoroughly lazy and self indulgent day. It was lovely. :-) When I got off the bus, which drops me right by my house, I had my phone in my hand to use the torch (no street lights here which I rather like). There are no bus stops either, the drivers drop you where you request. I loved how the house was welcoming me so I put down my bags of shopping and took few quick shots.... It's very cold and starry and they say it may snow! Thank you so much for the good wishes and for the poems - that was lovely! I hope you all had a happy time at Christmas. I spent time with family and although we have had some foul weather I had a beautiful journey home on the single bright and calm day in a week. My friend drove us out of the city to the west past fine terraces of Victorian and Edwardian houses, the golden stone looking amazing in the low sunshine. Along the western shores of Loch Lomond detouring for a look at the pretty village of Luss. Through the Arrochar Alps and over the Rest and Be Thankful pass, on to Loch Fyne and Loch Eck, over the Larach to Loch Long and home for a leissurely lunch. My daughter had kindly put some heating on and it took no time to get a good blaze going in the stove and to light lots of candles. So blessed. I hope you are sheltered from the storms. food and drink appreciation love inspiration gratitude happiness
joy beauty creativity gifts Most of us can have most of these at Chrismas, but only if we have the most important thing of all - peace They get too much for Christmas, said Gran. It's really shocking. In my young day you got a few nuts in your stocking, an orange and an apple and a hanky from your aunt and you were grateful for it unlike modern kids who aren't. So we put apples in her stocking as many as we could fit and was she grateful for it? No she wasn't, not a bit. From a little book which makes us chuckle each Christmas - Funny Poems For Christmas compiled by Paul Cookson
..coming along? My little sustainable save-the -planet growing Christmas tree is rather bald on top and a bit sad looking! So I cut some pine branches and wired them on. I will give the tree some extra TLC during the year and see if it will grow more needles on top for next Christmas. Meanwhile it looks quite pretty. When it is dark. Have you got your decorations up? Your cards posted? Your presents wrapped? The menu planned? Mid-winter would be so dull without Christmas! ..and on with more down to earth matters.
Do you have a place you feel to be your second home? Not in the literal sense of owning property there, but in the sense of feeling at home, feeling you belong. York was my home for many happy years and revisiting it can be rather bittersweet, but the beauty of it and the layers of history so visible on it's every surface always enchant me.. I am not naive about it's problems. Like most cities it has homelessness and pollution, over commercilisation, rowdy hen nights and stag parties and crowds, but as in many English cathedral cities there is a sense of continuity and tradition that appeals to me on a deep level. Centuries of it, and York Minster has seen it all. Gullygate, Petergate, Goodramgate, Fossgate, Walngate, Micklegate and Whip Ma Whop Ma Gate - all these smaller streets have wonderful independent shops run by knowledgeable and enthusiastic creative people. Children's bokshops, delis like The Hairy Fig , Greek cafes, bakers, clothes shops, card shops - if I didn't have to carry things home on public transport I would probably have spent a lot more money!
..looked magnificent under the stars. I could imagine that this is how every emperor would like to look. For me the start of the real Christmas.. When the main lights go out (about 14minutes in) and the procession starts, the magic begins. I do like what Lia Leendertz has to say in her December podcast As The Season Turns about our desire to hibernate in winter, and I also plan to take up her suggestion of preparing a nature table for the solstice on the 21st. We have had little snow as yet and some brave sunny days. I love the way the villas and large houses on the shores of Holy Loch give scale to the hills. Large areas of the forest have been felled recently.
A winter blog break coming up - hope you will stay safe and cosy! ..I just get a bit fed up with eating sensibly. So I had a mince pie for breakfast. Now to get down to the lovely task of sending greetings and messages of love...Its a happy thing to do on a wintry day. Donald MadLeod on his brilliant programme Composer of the Week (Radio 3 mid day) points out that in Medieval times the festive season lasted from now until Candlemas on the 2nd of February. Maybe they had the right idea. Would it not be a wonderful thing to celebrate every day of winter until them? In some quiet simple way? Any ideas on how you would do that? Mince pies for breakfast might be one.. well, occasionally. ..that I once said I would put a link to the beautiful holiday apartment in York which my kind friend let me say in during the pandemic on my way back from Venice. What a strange time that was. Here is the link. The house is lovely, the location perfect and York is gorgeous at Christmas! Getting in the mood to add a little decoration with the first Christmas card.
I noticed the building featured in this post only because my bus stop had been moved. I looked it up on the way home and thought I would like to see inside and took the opportunity on that day out in the time between the two concerts. As we walked in - it is the headquarters of the Bank of Scotland - a man stepped out from behind a very inposing desk and asked if he could help. When he realised we were not there on business he began discreetly walking us back towards the door, but when I said I was interested in the architecture it quicky became clear that her knew a lot about the building and its history, and we had a lovely conversation. (He called the building 'she') Sadly, the feature I especially wanted to see - the atrium - has been floored over. It no londer exists I have found a book called Fragments of Glasgow with photographs of many old Glasgow buildings, which I think I may have to have for Christmas! I am aware that it sounds a bit mad, but I absolutely LOVE ny barefoot walks on the sparkly frost. It's a woderful way to start the day. I got the fire going nicely, set the table for breakfast and put the kettle on before I went out into the magic of the morning. As some of you know something very odd is happening to this blog! The wrong photos are appearing, the font is changing and the layout is different. I have to report that I have not changed anything... I am investigating. My sister sent me this haiku -
Yesterday it worked. Today it is not working. Windows is like that. (Substitute Weebly for Windows!) |
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